I google in, “how do I forgive”, and a lot of Christian sites pop up. Beliefnet, a polyglot religious community, has a video by an author named Philip Yancey discussing the “unnatural act of forgiveness.” It is unnatural to forgive someone who has hurt you, but according to Yancey, it is an important act.
The video gets interrupted by an ad for athlete’s foot that uses an anthropomorphized fungus, red and with horns and sharp spiky teeth. The ad ends, and Yancey begins discussing the book he wrote on grace and how he learned so much about forgiveness from going to South Africa. That’s where I stopped.